We often come across women saying they have certain particular, clear, uncompromisable and unchangeable standards and if their partner is unable to meet them, they’d rather move on, and find someone who can give them what they deserve. It is entirely reasonable to have a set of standards of what you think is right for you. A woman knows what she deserves and should be treated accordingly.
A man cannot be in a relationship with her and mistreat her like she has no say in anything. On the other hand, women should not forget that it is their responsibility to treat their partners with respect and take care of happiness and satisfaction. You cannot keep on asking for everything only to give nothing in return. Women should be mindful of their partner’s wants and needs.
This is, overall, a difficult task. Men are usually not very vocal about their sentiments. They do not express themselves openly very often and find it difficult to speak about their wishes and desires. Women typically have to play the detective in decoding their companion’s mood, want, and needs. It is essential to understand that men are more vulnerable than women.
They find it difficult to let their partner know their feelings. They don’t want to come as vulnerable in front of their partners. Therefore they choose to often stay mum about it. They don’t ask for anything because they are afraid to be portrayed as needy or too dependent. Men are fragile too, but their stubborn nature will not let them admit it, at least nit very easily. It’s a woman’s responsibility to comprehend the needs and wants of their partner. Treat them like how she would want to be treated. Men, too, deserve to be pampered sometimes.
It is rightly said that communication is the key to a healthy relationship. A relationship where both partners talk about their issues and discuss everything, stick together for a longer time than those who don’t communicate efficiently. There are always some things which are to be understood even when your guy is not vocal about it. A man, sometimes, wants you to be cheesy with him, sometimes, after having a bad day, he will want you to console them. He will not ask for all of this, but you have to be smart and sensitive to know when to speak those words that he wants to hear, words that will make him feel better. Below are some things that should be said to a man. If you are already saying these things often then you already fit in the good books.
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4. Let’s head out to the town tonight
Women enjoy when men plan out a date for them. They expect men to take the first step. However, if the roles are reversed, and women make the initiative and plan a date or a hangout together with their partners, men will be elated. They will feel exceptional and appreciate this lovely effort done for them. Men do not need expensive gifts to be happy, they feel satisfied with the little steps taken to make them think that someone cares about them.
5. I am always thankful to have you
Your man should be appreciated. You should make him feel worthy. Some kind words can add to his validation as a good boyfriend/husband and a human being. He should think that his girl is satisfied with him. She is more than happy to be with him. This will make him do better and will keep him content.
6. I love you more than anyone else
Nobody likes to share their lovers with anyone. So let a guy know that he is the only one you love, and you love him more than anything is essential. He will not only feel special but will also feel satisfied that his girl will not love anything and anyone more than him. It will surely give him butterflies. A couple should never miss out on any chance to express their love for each other. It keeps the relationship healthy and sound.